Here are some of the most frequently asked questions about coaching:
A: A coach equips you to reassess and reorganise your life in terms of
personal or career development. Life Coaches identify and develop hidden
talents and other personal resources in order to improve your daily life
and help you to meet personal goals. A coach will move you forward much
quicker than if you tried to do it on your own.
Q. How does a coach do this?
A. By a coach really listening to what you are saying (and what you are
not saying) they will be enabled to ask insightful questions that get
to the real core of the issue being discussed. By having no agenda of
their own, opinions or pre- conceived ideas, they will extract and identify
the best in you and equip you with the tools to enable you to build a
future as you would like it to be.
Q. How many sessions will I need and how often?
A. That depends entirely on the issues raised, circumstances, and your
personal budget. The only commitment Aiming Higher asks of you is that
you are 100% committed to wanting change and to move forward in your life.
Coaching is only as successful as the commitment you put into it. We strongly
recommend that a minimum of 4 sessions be undertaken to start to achieve
real results. In a lot of cases, you will be making 'life-long' changes
and ridding yourself of self- limiting beliefs which have been built up
over many years. These changes will not happen overnight. Providing you
are giving your 100% commitment to the process (i.e. completing agreed
tasks) you will see real results in as little as 3-4 weeks. To begin with,
coaching is most effective if undertaken weekly, fortnightly, or 3 sessions
a month, again dependent upon your budget. It is recommended not to leave
too long between sessions initially, as the momentum and motivation could
be lost.
Q. Can I have a free consultation first?
A. ABSOLUTELY. We positively encourage it. A free consultation enables
you to find out whether coaching is right for you. You can ask your coach
any questions that the website may not have covered. You can get to know
your coach, and importantly, build a rapport, which is vital in a successful
coaching relationship. There is no obligation whatsoever following this
consultation and it is completely up to you to decide whether you want
to take it any further. You will not be pressured or bombarded with phone
calls and e-mails.
Q. Is Coaching like Counselling?
A. Counselling is about the 'now' and the 'past' and how the past is affecting
our lives today. Coaching leaves the past where it belongs and focuses
on creating the future you want. It is about growth and development and
requires a high level of commitment. There are similarities in that both
require a high level of listening skills and empathy and compassion, but
with coaching you will be encouraged and challenged to set yourself goals
with timeframes for achieving them.
Q. Will a coach tell me what to do?
A. NEVER! Any ethical coach who adheres to the strict procedures laid
down by their respective accreditation awarding body will never tell you
what to do. It is entirely the client's decision as to what they decide
to do. A coach may offer a suggestion, but only with permission, and that
suggestion can be either accepted, rejected or modified.
Q. My whole life is a mess - I wouldn't know where to start with coaching.
A. You could be asked to complete an exercise called 'The Wheel of Life'
in which you categorise the different areas of your life and give each
area a score according to how satisfied you are with it. i.e. 1 - 10 (10
being completely satisfied, and 1 completelyunsatisfied). Which issue,
if you could resolve it, would have the biggest impact on your life at
this moment? How would this issue, if resolved, affect the other areas
of your wheel of life?
Q. Does it matter where I live?
A. Not at all. Up to 90% of coaching takes place over the telephone,
making it accessible to anyone, anywhere in the world. I welcome 'face-to-face'
sessions for anyone local, or anyone willing to travel to my practice.
Q. Why should I choose Aiming Higher?
A. We at Aiming Higher are truly committed to wanting you to be successful.
We pride ourselves on our passion and reputation for getting to the 'real
core' of issues raised and for the supportive and nurturing environment
in which this takes place. You are assured that everyone associated with
Aiming Higher is professionally qualified and conducts themselves to the
highest professional and ethical standards as laid down by the accreditation
body's Code of Conduct. Read our client
testimonials
and see for yourself the results that can be achieved by 'Aiming Higher'.